Tag Archives: character disturbance
How Charming Narcissists Fool You
Vulgar Narcissists Offend While Charmers May Not
Surviving Toxic Relationships
Loving Relationships Can’t Always Heal
Character Disorders and Relationships
Authenticity Makes Love Possible

Self-Mastery through Tests of Character
We become the master of our appetites and aversions when we face and pass crucial tests of character. And the most crucial tests come with temptation, adversity, and power. These tests come early on and often throughout life. We build strength of character by facing and passing life’s little tests in our early years. This prepares us to face the bigger tests later on.

Mastering Appetites and Desires

Lies – Are They the Root of All Evil?
At a primal level, we are all animals with basic desires, instincts, urges, and raw emotions. And these primal characteristics of ours are not inherently evil. They’re a part of who we are. But because we are more than mere animals, we’re capable of functioning on a much higher plane. Before we can elevate ourselves to that plane, however, we must first “own” and then reckon with our baser inclinations. Of course, this is neither appealing nor easy. In fact the burden of self-reckoning is a “cross” we’re all called to carry if we’re to fashion a better world. Failing to accept this burden and instead lying about the flaws within ourselves that we need to reckon with is the ultimate evil.