Category Archives: Neurotics

Mind Control and Heart Control

Mind control is about holding sway over what a person thinks. But mind control can morph into heart control. Manipulators know this.

Narcissistic Rages and Their Forms and Causes

Narcissistic rages are common in abusive relationships. But characterizing every rager as “thin-skinned” is a potentially fatal mistake.

The Making of a Grandiose Narcissist

Grandiose narcissists are in many ways like spoiled little brats all grown up.

Narcissism Dynamics and the 6 A-Words

Narcissism dynamics are behaviors and interaction patterns common to narcissists, and the seeding of attention, affirmation, admiration, adulation, acclamation, adoration.

Codependency Versus Emotional Dependency

True codependency is widely misunderstood, and often mistaken for emotional dependency, a significant risk factor for abuse and exploitation in relationships.

Honesty is Crucial to Good Character

We once widely regarded truth as the “best policy.” That’s partly because we understood that it always outs in the end. But it’s also because the it mattered to us more than it seems to these days.

Grandiose Narcissists Are Legends in Their Own Minds

Some folks don’t just boast of greatness. They actually believe in their superiority. And they rarely waver in that conviction even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary.

Most Narcissists Cannot Really Love

Narcissists cannot really love because they can’t get beyond themselves. Some can charm convincingly, making you think it’s all about you. But when you scratch below the surface, you’ll find that it’s always really about them.

Wants and Needs Are Not the Same

Wants and needs are not the same things. And sometimes what we crave, no matter how badly, is the last thing we truly need.